Ending a marriage.
Separating with a
separation agreement.
A separation agreement is a written
agreement between a couple who intend to
stop living together, setting out how they
wish to resolve the issues of money,
property and children. It is usually made by
a married couple, but any couple can draw up
an agreement as a way of resolving and
confirming the arrangements they have come
to.
Examples of what may be included are, an
agreement:-
- to live separately. This releases
both partners from the duty to cohabit
which is part of the marriage contract.
If one member of a married couple does
not agree on separation, the agreement
should not be included as it will
prevent any future right to sue for
desertion in divorce proceedings;
- not to molest, annoy or disturb the
other partner;
- to provide maintenance for the other
partner, usually the woman. This would
normally say that maintenance will stop
if the woman cohabits with another man.
Any agreement not to apply to a court
for maintenance is invalid;
- to provide maintenance for any
children of the relationship. Any
agreement not to apply to a court or to
the Child Support Agency is invalid;
- on who the children should live with
and have contact with.
The advantage of a written agreement is
that it is easier to ensure that both
partners understand what has been agreed to.
It also means that either partner can go to
court to vary the order at a future date. It
is advisable to consult a solicitor when
drawing up an agreement, but the couple
should work out in advance the general areas
they want to cover. This will reduce the
legal costs. Legal aid may be available
under the legal help scheme.